Father, Son

Over the years, I have developed a deep respect for the magical potentials inherent in every family tree.Those deep reaching roots of ancestry are more tightly and deeply woven into each other than we can possibly imagine. Conventional (and even more advanced systems) psychology has it all  wrong:  in essence family trees are NOT about  the entanglement, NOT about the baggage that is passed down through the generations. It´s about the exact contrary: it ´s about the gifts. Every single ancestor, deepvdown the line, holds a specific gift for the next generations, and is intent to individuals to discover, unravel, make use of the gifts. Also here my basic assumption to all so-called problems applies: all problems are nothing but yet unrealized potentials. Period.
In that spirit: here is a song/video av Peter Gabriel that involves several generations of his family tree. The song in itself to symbolize a realizing and understanding of the link of the  potentials as they are passed from generation to generation. . 




Reading as an Integral Part of Therapy



In  traditional therapeutic processes, reading assignments are not part of the regular work agenda. What a loss ! In my experience, reading ”the right material” alongside therapeutic sessions can potentially act as major catalyst for fueling THE WORKS toward health and wholeness.
What makes the reading experience so valuable alongside the individual sessions ? It’s quite simple, really: when the client reads,  (s)he is actively 
participating  in the seeking and finding process. Reading thus stimulates the clients own inner therapist. After all, this is what therapy is really ALL
about: awakening the patients own capacity to become more and more their own therapist. In my understanding of the therapeutic process the external therapist really just functions as a mirror that is meant to reflect back to the client their own capacity to seek and find. I have said it before and say it again: the goal of all therapy is to make the therapist redundant.
Ultimately, reading is about seeking and finding.  The reader is -if (s)he is aware of it or not- in essence trying to find pieces of her/himSelf in every word or sentence that is being read. Each book can potentially provide pieces to the large puzzle of Life. Life IS puzzling, no need to argue. That is precisely why we are searching for those pieces. The more we find, the less puzzling and the more coherent the whole picture becomes becomes. 
It might be important to note that this applies in principle for all kind of books, not only those that are explicitly focused on Self- development. 
In the first instance, it would  be up to the the therapist to select the appropriate reading materials for the client, based on where (s)he perceives the patient to 
be on their journey. What kind of reading input might support  and extent the material and explorations that are taken up in the course of the individual session ?Reading assignments that meet the patient ”where they are " can thus fuel the work and carry it further, add new dimensions. It could in that sense be considered an Art and Craft on the therapist part to select the right material, something that  fits like a hand in a glove.
A last final remark on that note: most effective in the sense we have discussed here, is daily reading, in small portions.
Do you read me ?
(Nope, you always only just read your Self !)

Hokusai on Life's Better Half

I have always postulated that Life's second half (astrologically the years 42 +) is Life's better half
The great Japanese painter Hokusai confirmed this with this great quote:
“I have been in love with painting ever since I became conscious of it at the age of six.  I drew some pictures I thought fairly good when I was fifty, but really nothing I did before the age of seventy was of any value at all.  At seventy-three I have at least caught every aspect of nature–birds, fish, animals, insects, trees, grasses, all.  When I am eighty I shall have developed still further and I will really master the secrets of art at ninety.  when I reach a hundred my work will be truly sublime and my final goal will be attained around the age of one hundred and ten, when every line and dot I draw will be imbued with life.”“I have been in love with painting ever since I became conscious of it at the age of six.  I drew some pictures I thought fairly good when I was fifty, but really nothing I did before the age of seventy was of any value at all.  At seventy-three I have at least caught every aspect of nature–birds, fish, animals, insects, trees, grasses, all.  When I am eighty I shall have developed still further and I will really master the secrets of art at ninety.  when I reach a hundred my work will be truly sublime and my final goal will be attained around the age of one hundred and ten, when every line and dot I draw will be imbued with life.”